The Blessing of Saying No
"For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age." - Titus 2:11-12
In a world that promotes instant gratification and self-indulgence, it can be challenging to say no to the temptations that surround us. Advertisements, social media, and even peer pressure encourage us to chase after whatever feels good in the moment. For many, the idea of self-control and denying oneself seems outdated and unappealing.
As believers, we are called to live differently. We are called to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives. This calling often requires us to say no to things that others readily embrace. It might feel like we're missing out, but God promises to bless us for our obedience and self-discipline.
When we say no to the things of this world, we are making a statement of faith. We are declaring that we trust God's plan for our lives and believe that His ways are better than the fleeting pleasures of sin. This act of obedience is not without reward. God honors those who choose to follow Him over the desires of the flesh.
If you ever feel like you're missing out by not indulging in worldly desires, remember that God's blessings are eternal and far more satisfying than any temporary pleasure. Trust that He will honor your obedience and self-control. Your decision to say no to the things of this world is a testimony to your faith and commitment to God.
Reflect on the areas in your life where you are tempted to give in to worldly passions. Ask God for the strength to say no and for the assurance that His blessings are worth the wait. Remember that every act of obedience brings you closer to Him and aligns you with His perfect will.
God will bless you for saying no to the things of this world. Your faithfulness and self-discipline will not go unnoticed. Trust in His promises and look forward to the greater rewards that come from living a life that honors Him. Embrace the peace and joy that come from knowing you are walking in His ways, and let your life be a testament to the incredible blessings that come from saying no to the world and yes to God.
In a world that promotes instant gratification and self-indulgence, it can be challenging to say no to the temptations that surround us. Advertisements, social media, and even peer pressure encourage us to chase after whatever feels good in the moment. For many, the idea of self-control and denying oneself seems outdated and unappealing.
As believers, we are called to live differently. We are called to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives. This calling often requires us to say no to things that others readily embrace. It might feel like we're missing out, but God promises to bless us for our obedience and self-discipline.
When we say no to the things of this world, we are making a statement of faith. We are declaring that we trust God's plan for our lives and believe that His ways are better than the fleeting pleasures of sin. This act of obedience is not without reward. God honors those who choose to follow Him over the desires of the flesh.
If you ever feel like you're missing out by not indulging in worldly desires, remember that God's blessings are eternal and far more satisfying than any temporary pleasure. Trust that He will honor your obedience and self-control. Your decision to say no to the things of this world is a testimony to your faith and commitment to God.
Reflect on the areas in your life where you are tempted to give in to worldly passions. Ask God for the strength to say no and for the assurance that His blessings are worth the wait. Remember that every act of obedience brings you closer to Him and aligns you with His perfect will.
God will bless you for saying no to the things of this world. Your faithfulness and self-discipline will not go unnoticed. Trust in His promises and look forward to the greater rewards that come from living a life that honors Him. Embrace the peace and joy that come from knowing you are walking in His ways, and let your life be a testament to the incredible blessings that come from saying no to the world and yes to God.
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Thank you Ed for being a shining example of faithfulness. For being eager to teach us the wisdom you have gained over the years. One of my customers led me to come visit CBC by sharing his testimony and my family and I haven't missed a service since. P.S. when said testimony was shared, the Holy Spirit gave me full body chills and I knew that I needed to come back to the Lord. It was a great moment.
Thank you so much pastor Ed for teaching us the words of God.
It is so difficult to say no and when I do say no things constantly keep coming. I constantly feel that I am failing. Thank you sharing the message
Sometimes we have to say NO to "ok" things, good things, things our Christian friends are doing (that are not a sin). THEY'RE JUST NOT THE BEST. Sometimes God calls us to a deeper walk with Him, that even our Christian friends don't understand. They are saved and happy with their relationship to God. But you are called to a different more solitary journey, that they are not interested in.