Choosing Wisely in Relationships

 "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" - 2 Corinthians 6:14 
  
In matters of the heart, it's essential to heed the wisdom of Scripture, especially when it comes to being unequally yoked. This term refers to the imbalance that arises when believers enter into relationships with unbelievers, leading to potential spiritual pitfalls and challenges.

The story of Samson, as we have discussed the last couple of days, highlights this concept vividly. Despite warnings from his father, Samson was determined to pursue a relationship with someone who did not share his faith. He believed he could change her, but instead, he found himself being influenced and changed by her.
 
This pattern is all too familiar among believers who enter into relationships with non-believers, thinking they can bring about a positive change in the other person. However, more often than not, it is the believer who finds themselves compromising their faith and values, rather than the other way around.

The apostle Paul, in 2 Corinthians 6:14, warns against being unequally yoked with unbelievers. He reminds us that righteousness and wickedness have no common ground, and light cannot fellowship with darkness. When we choose to align ourselves closely with those who do not share our faith, we open ourselves up to spiritual vulnerability and compromise.
 
As believers, it's crucial to prioritize our relationship with God above all else, including romantic relationships. We must seek partners who share our faith and values, individuals who will encourage us in our walk with God rather than lead us away from Him.

I urge you to carefully consider the company you keep and the relationships you pursue. Surround yourself with fellow believers who will uplift and support you in your faith journey. And if you find yourself drawn to someone who does not share your beliefs, remember the cautionary tale of being unequally yoked. Choose wisely, for your spiritual well-being is at stake.